At some point in your life you may find yourself on the outside and needing to be inside. Those on the inside, from their perspective, are just fine without you. You on the outside want to enjoy the benefits of being on the inside.
How do you get in?
It starts by believing that getting in is possible while also knowing that the state of being in does not make you. It is the ability to get in that is more important. If you can get in once, you can get in again. If you have the skills to get in doors, you can open the doors you need.